Cosima's Diaries

Diary Entry of October 16, 1880

Overview

R. dreamed I had left him and that he ran after the train in panic, and by noon we were together in good spirits visiting the Doge’s Palace, where the atmosphere impressed us as one of decline. Later he spoke strongly against women smoking while blaming men’s conduct toward women, admired the serene sorrow of Beethoven’s C-sharp minor quartet, and ended the day relieved by news that Parsifal was secured for 1882 with Munich forces available.

Content

Saturday, October 16:

R. dreamed that I went away, he following behind; running after the train, he cried frantically, “To Ansbach!”

I call for him with the punctuality which always puts us in good spirits, on the stroke of twelve, and we go to the Doge's Palace. Great impression of decadence.

After lunch our conversation touched on women who smoke, and R., after energetically voicing his repugnance for it, says that it comes, however, from men who smoke in the presence of women, and altogether from their incorrect attitude toward women.

Today he has on his mind the allegretto theme of the C-sharp Minor Quartet (2nd tempo): “What a serene lament!” he exclaims, and, “A man who invents something like that I could worship as a god.”

Excellent letter from Herr von Bürkel, saying that our matter is now settled, Parsifal assured for 1882, orchestra and chorus from Munich at our disposal.

We are still tired from yesterday, so unused are we to social occasions.