Cosima's Diaries

Diary Entry of October 12, 1869

Overview

Lulu's ninth birthday brings a grand presentation of birds, a dress, and other gifts, followed by a children's party with puppet show and dancing. Richard's comments about keeping girls and boys apart sadden Cosima and make her regret the disturbance brought into his house. Hans's failure to send Loulou a greeting adds a deeper melancholy to the festivities.

Content

Tuesday, October 12:

Lulu nine years old! Grand presentation of gifts: birds, a dress, all sorts of things; she is overjoyed. Children's party with puppet show (me!) and dancing.

R. saddens me by claiming to have established through small, unimportant incidents that it would be better not to bring little girls together with boys. I almost reproach myself for having brought into his house as much disturbance as today, and intend to celebrate future birthdays in a different way. It also makes me melancholy that Hans did not send his child a greeting.